Sunday, March 31, 2013

Happy Easter!

Dress and Necklace: Francesca's Shoes: Libby Edelman Earrings: Ralph Lauren Watch: Fossil

Happy Easter Y'all! 

Easter Sunday is one of my favorite days of the year.  For me, it's always been about my faith, family, and of course fashion!

There is nothing better than spending the day celebrating Jesus' resurrection by going to church, eating a great southern meal, and carrying out Easter traditions with my extended family, which also includes the annual Easter egg hunt! 

I kept my Easter Sunday outfit sweet and classic with a cream and floral lace dress with a coral lining underneath to add a pop of color.  I'm obsessed with statement necklaces right now, so adding a gold chunky necklace was a must.  I then added in my beige heels that go with just about anything.  Painting my nails teal added just the right amount of fun and color to the outfit. My signature Ralph Lauren pearls and Fossil watch, my favorite go-to accessories were the last final touch! 




XO,

Morgan



Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Taking a Stand Against Eating Disorders



Anorexia, binge eating, and bulimia. Do I have your attention? 8 million Americans struggle with eating disorders. Seven million of those being women. 

  •          One in 200 American women suffer from anorexia
  •          Two to three out of 100 American women suffer from bulimia
  •          Nearly half of all Americans personally know someone with an eating disorder.
  •       5 – 10% of anorexics die within 10 years after contracting the disease; 18-20% of anorexics will be dead after 20 years and only 30 – 40% ever fully recover
  •         The mortality rate associated with anorexia nervosa is 12 times higher than the death rate of ALL causes of death for females 15 – 24 years old.
  •      20% of people suffering from anorexia will prematurely die from complications related to their eating disorder, including suicide and heart problems


So why did I just tell you all of that information?

Because it breaks my heart to see middle school girls, high school girls, college aged girls, and even middle aged women battling eating disorders and feeling like they are the only ones and can't speak up about it.

It’s time we as women, stop comparing ourselves to others and judging each other. Instead, we need to build each other up and encourage one another. We were all created with different body types and there is no way that we can all be 5’ 9” and a size zero… but honestly who cares? We need to learn to be content in our OWN bodies and stop looking for the approval of others.  

So what happens if you are battling with an eating disorder?

The first thing that I want you to realize is that you are not alone. You are seriously so beautiful. Know that and believe it because it’s true.

Genesis 1:27 says, “So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.”  

When we listen to the lies of the devil telling us that we aren’t beautiful, good enough, or skinny enough, we are telling the GOD OF THE UNIVERSE that He didn’t know what He was doing when He created us. That is a sin.

“You are altogether beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you.” Song of Solomon 4:7

If you have realized that you may have an eating disorder, I want you to tell someone.  Tell a friend, your mom, someone you look up to, or anyone that you feel like you can trust. Reaching out for help is not a sign of weakness, it’s a sign of strength.

You CAN begin to heal and get better… I have seen it done and it is a beautiful thing! 

Steps to take after you tell someone...

1.) Seek medical help.
-This might seem scary, but seeing a doctor is the best way to a quick recovery.
  Bring a friend with you for support! It’s highly effective!

2.) Find an accountability partner.
-Do not try and do this on your own. We need help and encouragement from others to get us through the difficult times! 

3.) Most importantly, completely put your situation in God’s hands.  He is the one who will give you strength and healing! 

Recovery is a challenge, but it's not as difficult as continuing to live with the wrath of an eating disorder.

For those of you who don't have an eating disorder, but are struggling with insecurity or obsessed with being healthy and working out, I challenge you to spend time focusing on your inner beauty just as much as your outer appearance.  Stop looking at inspiration pictures of girls that are photoshopped, stop pinning pictures of girls on pinterest that have bodies that are impossible to achieve, stop weighing yourself daily, and stop obsessing over counting every calorie.  Be healthy and create a work out routine, but don't obsess over it. If you find yourself obsessing, take a step back and re-evaluate your intentions. 

I hope this was helpful and an encouragement for someone today! If you have any questions or need someone to talk to about these issues, feel free to contact me.  I would love to talk more in depth or even be praying for you on this journey! 

Psalm 139: 14 “I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.”  


Morgan


Resource

http://www.state.sc.us/dmh/anorexia/statistics.htm